Chivalry IS Dead, I See

Yesterday afternoon, I rush to get ready 

seeing as how I have a class at 2pm and I'm definitely going to be late to it.

Ryan drops me off at school and I rush up to the Communication building on campus.

I'm 10 minutes late. Crap.

I find the classroom, open the door and bump into some people on the floor,

there were so many people crammed into the classroom trying to add the course,

that there were extra students sitting on the floor.

The guy next to me takes the liberty to fill me in on what I had missed,

when I see out of the corner of my eye, some guy smirking at me from the front row.

Turns out that it's my best friend Grant!

I smile and discreetly wave to him, then proceed to pull out my laptop and take notes.

20 minutes into class I notice that Grant is putting on his jacket.

Why is he doing that? It's not even cold in here!

Then he puts his belongings away in his backpack.

Graaaaaant. Did you know there is still an hour left in class?

He gets up out of his seat and walks over to me saying, quietly:

"Go over there and you take my seat"

The whole class is watching, the teacher stops lecturing for a bit while I gather my things to go sit smack in front of the classroom in a chair.

The old teacher then says:

"Well I guess chivalry isn't dead!"

I take my seat at the front, beaming with my uncanny ability to find just the bestest friends in the world...

when I notice all the guys around me are looking at one another.

They are all sneakily surveying the class, waiting to see who the next guy will be to give up their seat for the other 2 girls sitting on the ground. 

NONE OF THEM GET UP.

I was appalled to say the least.

{Grant & I circa 2010, before he left for his LDS mission}

No one in the class knew that Grant was my best friend.

So, for all they know it was a complete stranger giving up their seat for a girl on the ground.

This is BYU for pete's sake and NOT ONE GUY got up off of their fancy behinds to give up their seat for one of the young ladies sitting on the ground.

Even after one guy had already paved the way and given up his seat for me.

Wow.

That's pretty much all I can spit out.

Is chivalry and common courtesy totally dead?

Is it considered "weak" if a guy gives up his seat, holds a door open for a girl,
 or speaks to her with kindness and respect?

What do you all think about this?

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